What to do if you are a victim of Identity Theft
https://www.irs.gov/uac/Newsroom/IRS-Identity-Theft-Victim-Assistance-How-It-Works
If you think the "IRS" is calling you: they're not
http://hudsonvalley.news12.com/news/police-warn-new-yorkers-about-irs-scammers-1.11429849
Refund Status Checkers:
Federal:
New York State:
https://www8.tax.ny.gov/PRIS/prisStart
Connecticut:
https://drsindtax.ct.gov/AUT/welcomeindividual.aspx
New Jersey:
https://www16.state.nj.us/TYTR_TGI_INQ/servlet/COMMON/prompt